I didn’t have any confidence in my beauty when I was young. I felt like a character actress, and I still do.
–Meryl Streep, age 63
“My appearance has changed a lot over the years, but it has far more to do with how I feel about being a woman. I`ve never thought of myself as vain. When I was at Cambridge, I shaved my head and wore baggy clothes. It was partly to do with the feminism of that time: militant and grungy. That`s all changed now, though I don`t think it is liberating to get your tits out. I don`t hold with that. But I am much more comfortable with being a woman now than I was in my twenties.”
–Emma Thompson, age 53
“Now all of a sudden I’m so less interested in pretending to be a lot of other people, and much more interested in being me.”
–Jamie Lee Curtis, age 53
“There were times when I hated my nose. But you grow up and you start to recognize that maybe it wasn`t a bad thing that you weren`t born Barbie.”
–Anjelica Huston, age 61
Why does it seem to be the common experience of women to spend most of our lives feeling ashamed of our body or looks? Why do so many of us silently struggle with our size, nose, or smile? Why do we feel somehow that we will never measure up?–That we will never fit the definition of beauty?
Sure, we could go on for hours and days talking about the media’s part, the cultural messages we are sent, and the billions of photoshopped images of women that are in our faces every day.
Yes, all of these things have played a pretty big part.
But why have we believed them? Why are these women in their fifties and sixties saying they are just beginning to accept themselves? And rarely do I hear women in their twenties and thirties being able to say the same?
What is the switch that needs to be turned on inside of us as women, that will enable us to fully accept ourselves, imperfections and all?
I don’t want to wait until I am fifty, forty-five, or even a few years from now when I am thirty-five; I don’t want to wait any longer to begin embracing the body, personality, and heart that God has given me.
And, wherever you are on this journey, I don’t want you to have to wait either.
What step can we take today, to begin to embrace ourselves a little bit more?